Was listening to Fly Pagi Crew this morning while driving to work (so lazy to take the LRT today especially wearing the Z*ra suit Fara got me-sure berpeluh2 gaban punya). They were discussing which is more appealing, bad boys or good boys? 🙂
The girl-callers keep on saying that they just loooove the bad boys. Bad boys tend to be spontaneous and fun, while the good boys prone to be so skem-A, play safe by the rule and soooooooo boring!! But at the end of the day, who gets to be crown as king? Bad or good boys? 🙂
Let me feed you with story of mine (Hehe macam korang tak tau pulak..)
I was form 5 that time and met my first boyfriend Zuri* who came from an all-boys school. I was his first love as well, so we tend to experiment all sorts of things-details safe in my pockets 🙂 We hung out at KLCC a lot, and that time (mind you, I was hot back then) I was the trophy in a battle between him and Azm*. I remembered I picked him up over Azm* coz he was in a band, spontaneous and full of fun! On the other hand, Azm* ni macam boring sikit and so skem-A! Me and Zuri* had the best teenage life one could ever imagine – skipped school, runaway from home (kids, I do, however doesn’t condone this behaviour), took the commuter all the way to Seremban just coz we were bored with KL, went to gigs, got grounded but managed to escape from our parents who busy searching for us who went missing for few days, stole the schoolbus etc – U name it! We led the young and dangerous way of life, which until now I didn’t regret one bit coz I know these things make me grow in a way. That was my share on bad boys.
University days, I thought I want to be better and settle down (gila awal nak settle down!)-so my choice of guy this time was a good one. Sya*, who was an out-towner and a very nice one at that, managed to stole my heart. But I, however, managed to convert him bit by bit and he tends to get wilder each day. We broke-up when there’s no more chemistry transpired between us. He, then (I believe) become one bad boy, thanks to me (?)
And the last one (name not to be mentioned as to avoid another internet-brawl = let just call him Mr G), was a mixture of good and bad boy. I remembered I crowned him over another guy that time, Cobai*, coz Mr G possessed the ‘good’ quality that Cobai* don’t have. And that time, I thought, (again) I want to settle down.
See? When you thought that you wanted to settle down, you tend to pick the good seeds over the bad ones. And when you implanted in your head that ‘a girl just wanna have some fun’, you tend to search this bad souls coz you know somehow they know how to squeeze the fun outta you and make you feel more alive. Maybe it was written to be this way?
Besides these people that I mentioned, I dated few bad and good boys, and beyond doubt, dating bad boys were far more thrilled and entertaining. They’re unpredictable and you don’t know what to expect. Whilst dating good boys, you tend to forecast what he gonna do next coz the behaviour and act are soooo predictable, which may create boredom in the relationship. But I guess, for those who like to play it safe, dating bad boys might not sound like a good idea.
I don’t have the yes or no answer for you. But personally (no offense ya bad boys), when it comes to deciding a life-partner, long-term kinda commitment, I think you guys will be forfeited easily. Girls only seek you when they need to take a plunge out of their normal routine life and pump some adrenaline -yeah I know coz I so did! But, in choosing someone to settledown for the rest of our lives, I think we girls wanna play the game safe.
Yeah, good boys definitely take the cake. Long live good boys! 🙂