I was, well, among other things, a telephone operator, a shrink, a chaffeur and a friend yesterday.
I was in Ipoh yesterday evening. Pushed off from KL at 3pm, made a quick way north, arrived home at 2am and straight went to bed. No, I was there not to serang anybody’s ex fiance (heh) or anybody’s wife to be (heh again). I was there for family matter, sent my mengada-ngada spoilt elder brother for his studies after a long semester break. Before, I was in the office and let me tell you, the whole morning I was busy doing my last? second last? far from last work given by my boss. And I realized how badly I’m gonna missed all of this after Thursday. huhu.. 😦
Ok, enough about me.. Who’s ready for an X story? (yes, I saw few hands raised), so here goes:
Earlier yesterday morning I got a call from one of R*d’s sibling, bitching venting out how mad she was at his brother. I was on the other line, listening and it kept me thinking real deep. She said that R*d has become somebody she barely knows. The wedding is one month away but all he did was going to and fro Tg*nu-Ip*h every other weekend. He has been a royal pain in the as* throughout this wedding prep and worst of all, he didn’t even care about the reception on his side, but more on the reception on the girl’s side. I was totally overwhelmed and shocked. This is totally not the R*d I used to know. Yes, I was mad at him for God-knows-certain things (baru je few days lepas die sibuk2 tanya bila nak tukar nama kereta. Duh? When I have the money la.. ) but never ever I hate him for everything he did to me. The sister also vented out how R*d has neglected his whole family and focused only on the girl. Oh gosh, that is sooo not the R*d I used to know. He never ever never put family first! I was even the fourth (maybe fifth?) in his priority list while we were dating. If there’s one thing I am certain about him, is that family means everything to him. Worst of all, I found out that the fiancee has been viewing my FS profile using his account! Duh. what such loser?
Note to the fiancee who knows it all: I understand some girls get pretty jealous of their boyfriend/fiance’s whereabout. But this? You have been checking up on me from time to time and even ask your fiance to scold his sister for befriended me? This is called pathetic insecurity, dear. I just don’t understand why you have to be this insecure, of all people, on me? He dumped me to be with you, don’t you see? He’s all yours. I swear I won’t even peek. I wanted to thank you even, for stealing taking him away from me, or else I’ll be blinded in this triangle forever. Thank you for opened up my eyes, coz I know I deserve much2 better. Prior to this, I never believe that everything that happened have the blessing in disguise, but now I know..Things that we don’t see, not necessarily weren’t there..
But tell me something I don’t understand. If you claimed that you really love him, how could you deprive him from joy with his family and drive him towards bitterness instead? Naahh.. who am I to judge one’s relationship kan? But I just felt a bit overwhelmed coz from the story the sister told me, he definitely NOT the R*d I used to know…
Okay, okay, on a lighter note:
1. Got a call from Jr, R*d’s bandmate whom I still befriended till today (just don’t believe that friends can break-ups, I know couples do..)
Him: Hey bit*h!
Me: Hey back, bit*h!
Him: I heard he’s getting married?
Me: Hehe.. that was yesterday’s news la dude!
Him: Let’s crash! I know the wifey would turn Hulk when see you there!
2. An acquaintance from the past texted after 2 years of silence. And after updating each other’s with each whereabouts, he (I don’t know?jokingly?) said that he had been waiting for me all these years and just gonna masuk meminang soon. I was like, yeah right? Don’t even say things that you don’t even mean (heart’s a fragile little thing, you know) and even if it was not a joke, I don’t even know you inside out, brother! Don’t believe love could last start without that spark, tingling, karan sensation.
3. My cousin MMSed me a picture of her and a guy last night:
Her: Hensem tak mamat ni?
Me: Your new bf izzit? Bolehlaa… But not my type..
Her: Teruk betulla Kak Nee ni.. Orang nak kenalkan dengan dia. Awal2 lagi dah kene reject!
Me: Hehe..Okay okay.. Shoot! 🙂
I soooo can relate with people that are too rigid in his/her choices of partners. Trust me, I know, coz I also (terribly) did. Heh.
Do knock my doors, people. I won’t stop you. But don’t blame me if I don’t open the door, coz I’ve lost the key somewhere. Might take a while before I find it again and let you in… But, please… don’t hold your breath…