Librans are typically known for their (our) indecisive manner. They (We) tend to judge two options heavily (that explains the symbol of scale for our horoscope sign), taking into account everything under the sun before making any decisions. This could range from buying two similar shirts (different colour, however) at the shopping mall to choosing between 2 guys to engage in the holy matrimony.
I, likewise, face the same problem, all the time. I don’t know whether it’s just impulse act (or paranoia I might add) knowing that I’m a Libran (trying to get the fact that Libran-tend-to-be-indesicive-bla-bla-bla right) but, sometimes it just happened. Most of the times, I already know what decision I want to take but sometimes I just need to hear from somebody to say that its the right act. Self-soothing you can call that…
It doesn’t have to turn out right (we never know what fate awaits us kan?), but at least it has to make perfect sense at the moment of the decision making. I always do whatever I think right and fit my conscience, rather than listening to what other people have to say. Call me selfish, but I’d rather choose an option that I favor, face the outcome – be it good or bad than missing the whole fun/adventure since I’m too afraid to take the decision – or too indulge in what other people have to say. Risk taker, I am. Always.
I have a huge decision to make. In fact I have two at the moment. It’s not about guys, I assure you (yawn..) but it’s about my career and also my life ahead of me. People around me already gave me their 2 cents which certainly worth a dollar (thanks), but I don’t really care. I’m not all about self-righteousness, but at this age (yeah 18 ) I should be able to make my own decision, huge one at that.
I’ve been making decisions my whole life and yes, there are few that I regret of making (Semesta-drop out1997/painkiller consumption/bad choices of boyfriends/school suspension/ring a bell?) but I I guess I will never learn if I never know how to take care of my own mess.
Yes, mum/relatives can always blurt their concerns and their choices of option (and trust me I do consider) but I always make the decisions based on my pro-con list and not others. I won’t be what I am today if not because of those good/bad-decision making which clearly taught me a thing or two on survival skills (I guess that’s a good thing. No?) 🙂
Well, I’ll update what my two decisions are (and their outcome) later. In the meantime, do wish me luck yah!